Some patients wonder what it’s like to have a male OB-GYN. The answer? Compassion, professionalism, and respect. Here’s how male OB-GYNs support women’s health with expertise and sensitivity.
For many men, the OB-GYN’s office can feel like unfamiliar territory — sterile rooms, medical terms, and conversations about the female body that might seem “off limits.”
But the truth is, your presence during these appointments isn’t just appreciated — it’s powerful.
Whether your partner is pregnant, trying to conceive, or just keeping up with regular checkups, your involvement can ease anxiety, improve communication, and strengthen your relationship.
Here’s how you can make a real difference next time you step into that waiting room together.
👂 Listen and Learn
OB-GYN visits often involve personal discussions about reproductive health, fertility, or pregnancy that can be emotionally charged.
Your role isn’t to have all the answers — it’s to listen, ask respectful questions, and show genuine interest.
💬 Sound familiar? You tend to zone out when medical jargon starts flying or assume your partner’s got it handled.
💡 Pro tip: Before the appointment, ask your partner if there’s anything they’d like you to help remember or ask the doctor. Taking notes can make you an even better teammate.
🤝 Be Emotionally Present
A routine check-up can sometimes reveal unexpected news or stir up emotions your partner didn’t anticipate. Your calm presence can provide stability when things feel uncertain.
👀 What to watch for: Signs of nervousness or withdrawal, like short answers, fidgeting, or sudden silence during or after the appointment.
💡 Pro tip: Don’t rush to “fix” things. Sometimes the best support is quiet reassurance — holding their hand, listening afterward, and asking how they feel.
🗓️ Get Involved in the Planning
From scheduling follow-ups to understanding test results, the OB-GYN journey is often ongoing. Participating in the process shows your partner that this isn’t just their responsibility — it’s a shared one.
💬 Sound familiar? You tend to forget appointment dates or wait for reminders to come your way.
💡 Pro tip: Add key dates to your phone calendar. A quick “Hey, how are you feeling about tomorrow’s appointment?” goes further than you think.
🩺 Understand What’s Being Discussed
Don’t be afraid to learn the basics of reproductive and hormonal health — it’s part of understanding your partner’s body and experience. From Pap smears to ultrasounds, knowing what’s normal helps you support with confidence rather than confusion.
🤓 Interesting note: A single OB-GYN appointment can cover topics like birth control, fertility, cancer screening, mental health, and more—all interconnected with overall wellness.
💡 Pro tip: If you’re unsure about something, ask for clarification after the appointment. Your curiosity shows care, not ignorance.
🌸 Celebrate the Small Wins
Health journeys — especially around pregnancy or hormonal changes — can feel heavy. Don’t underestimate how meaningful your encouragement can be.
👀 What to watch for: Missed opportunities to celebrate—like a good test result, a clear ultrasound, or simply completing an appointment your partner was anxious about.
💡 Pro tip: A small gesture afterward — like lunch, a walk, or a simple “You handled that so well” — can turn a medical errand into a moment of connection.
Showing Up Matters. Here’s How We Help.
Our OB-GYN team believes that reproductive health is a family conversation. We welcome partners to be involved, informed, and supportive at every stage—from routine wellness checks to pregnancy care.
👩⚕️ Meet our team: Dr. Nina Graham and Dr. Frankly Saunders provide compassionate, patient-centered care for women of all ages.
📞 Call (242) 702-9310 to schedule an appointment or learn more about women’s health services at familymedicinecenter.org.